These days people seem to
expect favours - they do make the table look pretty - but beware of spending
too much! Scented candles, photograph frames and even CDs are being
suggested but just remember they may 'only' cost 2.50 per head but if there
are 100 guests that will set you back £250! What would that pay for
in the 'real world' after the wedding?
Five sugared almonds are the traditional favour, wrapped in a
square of tissue to coordinate with your colour scheme, and are quite
inexpensive. You could go for a fun idea such as a packet of love
hearts or even smarties. A lottery ticket in a little envelope which
would double as a place name is another possibility or a 'lucky' sixpence
stuck to the name card (buy them up off ebay). A (nearly) free idea would be
to make paperweights by finding some large, smooth pebbles and writing
people's names on them in silver or gold pen, then paint them over
with clear varnish. Again this could replace a name card.
Another alternative could be to make gingerbread men (or gingerbread bride
and groom, or just cookies) and ice them with names or patterns and decorate
them with dragees (little silver balls)
www.deliaonline.com has a
gingerbread man recipe.
At a wedding I recently attended the bride and her friends
had saved baby food jars. They sprayed the tops silver and then her
grandmother, with her friends from the Women's Institute, filled them with
home made chutney. They then covered the tops with circles of pretty
fabric held on with rubber bands and added "hand written" (actually produced
on a computer!) labels. Martha Stewart would have loved them!
Remember that, having gone to so much trouble and
expense, half the drunken guests will go off leaving their favours on the table
at the end of the evening!